LGBTQ Divorce Lawyer Serving Virginia

The divorce lawyers at Montagna Law are a knowledgeable and resourceful team with more than 50 years of experience. We have provided vigorous and caring advocacy to hundreds of families. We offer hands-on assistance in a wide range of family law matters, representing our clients’ interests with compassion and care. Our team includes certified mediation experts who can help when a case does not need to go to trial.

What Are the Requirements for a Same-Sex Divorce in Virginia?

Same-sex couples going through a divorce have the same legal issues and requirements as heterosexual spouses under Virginia family law.

Residency

In order to file for divorce in Virginia, you or your spouse must meet the following residency requirements:

• One of you has lived in Virginia for at least six months; and
• That person lives in Virginia on the day the divorce case is filed.

For spouses who are serving in the U.S. military, being stationed on a base or ship located in the state counts for the residency requirement.

Living Separately

Virginia allows “no-fault divorce,” meaning that a couple can get a divorce without evidence that anyone was at fault for the breakup of the marriage. In order to obtain a no-fault divorce, the spouses must have lived apart with no cohabitation for a minimum period of time:

• One year; or
• Six months, if the spouses never had children, either biological or adopted, and have signed a separation agreement.

“No cohabitation” means that they cannot, at any time during the period of separation, have moved back in together, such as with the intention of trying to reconcile.

Grounds for Divorce

Virginia family law also provides fault-based grounds for divorce:

• Cruelty
• Desertion or abandonment
• Adultery
• Conviction of a felony with a sentenced of at least one year in prison

These are discussed in more detail further below.

Separation Agreement

You and your spouse may enter into a separation agreement that covers all of the important issues involved in the divorce, such as division of property, child custody, and child support. You may present this agreement to the court and ask the judge to approve it as part of your final divorce decree.

The judge must confirm that the agreement meets the requirements of state law, particularly if children are involved. Judges are usually more than happy to accept separation agreements and uncontested divorces since that means they can get your case off of their docket. 

What Is the Difference Between Uncontested and Contested Same-Sex Divorce?

A divorce is a legal proceeding in a Virginia court, much like a lawsuit. Just as you can settle a lawsuit before going to trial, you can reach a settlement agreement with your spouse, also known as a separation agreement, to resolve the issues in your divorce. If you cannot come to an agreement, you may need to ask the court to decide for you after a trial.

A divorce that you and your spouse are able to resolve without the court’s help is known as an uncontested divorce. If you have to have hearings or a trial, your divorce is contested.

The process for an uncontested divorce is usually much faster than the alternative. A contested divorce will be at the mercy of the court’s schedule, and you could have to wait weeks or months to get a hearing date.

Uncontested divorces also tend to be more predictable, since they mostly consist of negotiation and discussion. For this reason, they tend to be less expensive. A contested divorce can take a very long time and cost a substantial amount of money, while many divorce lawyers will charge a flat fee for an uncontested case.

What Are the Fault-Based Grounds for Divorce in Virginia? 

Several fault-based grounds for divorce are possible in Virginia. The spouse alleging fault has the burden of proving it in court. The grounds for divorce do not change regardless of the sexual orientations of the couple seeking a divorce.

Cruelty

A spouse may seek a divorce on the ground that the other spouse has engaged in cruel treatment. Virginia law defines “cruelty” as the infliction of bodily injury that endangers “life, limb, or health,” or conduct that places someone in reasonable fear of this kind of injury. Psychological cruelty may meet this standard if it is bad enough.

Adultery

A person may seek a divorce because their spouse has committed adultery. This is a common fault-based ground for divorce in Virginia, but it is also difficult to prove. State law requires “clear and convincing evidence” that a spouse has engaged in adultery, which can be a difficult burden of proof to meet. The evidentiary requirement can add time to the divorce process. If a court finds that a spouse has committed adultery, that spouse may not be eligible to receive alimony or spousal support.

Abandonment

Abandoning one’s spouse for at least a year with “willful and malicious intent” is a ground for divorce. Determining intent is important in this situation. A spouse who flees the household out of fear of abuse, for example, may have been acting out of self-preservation instead of “malice.”

Desertion

Desertion is essentially the same as the ground for divorce based on abandonment.

Criminal Conviction of a Felony

Conviction of a felony may be a ground for divorce if the spouse receives a prison sentence of at least one year.